"The Only Journey is the Journey Within"

Tributes to Sandi

2011-12-05T05:47:00.003-06:00

Sandi's funeral service was sad, but beautiful. It was obvious that she touched the hearts of so many people. Her two best friends (Gigi and Kelly) and I were honored to be able to speak about her at the service. It may be the hardest thing I've ever done, but I really wanted it to be a service that honored her. I wanted to share our tributes to her with all of you, in the order that we shared in the service. We put her three favorite purses up on the podium with us... she loved those bags. And one of us was with her when she bought each one.

Gigi-

Why purses?

You carry things in a purse.

Sandi always tried to help others carry their burdens

The three of us were almost as close to Sandi as she was to

Jimmy, Gucci and Louis.

I am Gigi Schuyler and I love Sandi McCool

I was fortunate to become a friend of Sandi’s when Alan began working at Urological Associates with my husband. From the first time we met we just seemed to understand each other. She was the friend everyone hoped for. In only 6 years, it seems I’ve known her for a lifetime. I could tell you hundreds of stories about Sandi, but the one virtue I admire most would be her selfless devotion to others.

She believed that life offered her opportunities, not obstacles.
Soon after settling into her home and job in Dothan and meeting people at Debby’s Thursday Coffee Group, she began to question why there was no local event to raise breast cancer awareness. She had been a part of Race for the Cure in Indianapolis and
contacted The Susan G. Komen Foundation about bringing the event to Dothan. She was told that the event was exclusive to larger metropolitan areas and would not expand into smaller communities.
An Obstacle?? No. This was an opportunity to begin an annual breast cancer event in Dothan that would benefit those in the community. All proceeds would remain here in the Wiregrass area.

One evening in April of 2008, Sandi shared her dream over a bottle of wine on a friend’s back porch. The next day, one friend, Mary Alice Veale, contacted the Medical Center Foundation about sponsoring such an event and in October of 2008, Sandi’s dream, Champions of Hope, became a reality.

Four years and over a quarter of a million dollars later, my friend has accomplished her mission of helping others and making her mark on Dothan.

In her fight against breast cancer, Sandi never wanted to be in the spotlight. She wanted to help others whom she deemed “not as fortunate” as she was. She was so thankful that she didn’t have to return to work during her ongoing treatment or find people to take her to appointments. She worried about mothers who couldn’t afford to take time off from their jobs and had families to care and provide for. She worried about those who didn’t have access to early detection screenings. The proceeds from Champions of Hope will help the many people Sandi was concerned about. Because of Sandi, there are people who will benefit from Champions of Hope for generations to come. It is our job to make sure it continues to prosper.

Many would say that going to chemotherapy and radiation treatments were obstacles. Sandi went to each treatment looking her best (because she said she had to start somewhere) and with a positive attitude. This was the way her Mama, Joyce, raised her. She was taught to always work hard for what she wanted in life and to never give up.

Each time I accompanied her to a chemotherapy treatment, the staff at Dr. McAllister’s office was always amazed with her zest for life. During the treatments, which lasted an average of 2-3 hours, Sandi shared volumes of her life with me. We would talk and of course, laugh. Some of the other patients must have wondered if we were in the wrong place since we were obviously having a good time. We definitely weren’t in the wrong place…we were celebrating another day.

One day while waiting for a radiation treatment, a lady next to Sandi asked her what she was there for and of course Sandi shared her story.
The lady told her that she was undergoing radiation for breast cancer herself and had just completed her final chemo treatment. Sandi asked her if she had heard of Champions of Hope? She said she had and that she didn’t know what she would do if her cancer came back.
Another opportunity for teaching and encouragement…
Sandi told her “you wouldn’t do anything other than what you are doing right now…what choice do we have. There are so many treatment plans that can keep you going. You CAN live with cancer." I am pretty sure Sandi made a lasting impression on her and I hope she has become part of Sandi’s legacy.

Jeremiah chapter 29 verse 11 states
“For I know the plans I have for you, declares the Lord. Plans to prosper you and not to harm you, plans to give you hope and a future.” It is a beautiful verse that I have heard and read many times. Many people use it for comfort and personal edification. Just by reading that ONE verse it is reasonable to see why people feel that way. However, once the preceding and proceeding verses are put together with that one verse, the take-away is MUCH different. The scripture was written by Jeremiah to the exiles from Jerusalem that were placed in Babylon. Can you imagine what exile would be like? A new place, a new culture, new languages, new foods. Sounds familiar to the place we are right now…in a world without Sandi. We are entering a new stage of our lives – one that we’ve been forced to enter and nothing that brings comfort is within reach. I believe that Jeremiah 29:11 is a promise to those people in exile. While it isn’t a promise of immediate removal from this exile, it is a promise that God’s faithful presence is with all of us who believe in him and focus our attention on HIM…not on our loss.
In verses 12-14, the comfort in that promise is detailed. “…you will call upon me and come and pray to me, and I will hear you. You will seek me and find me. When you seek me with all your heart, I will be found by you, declares the LORD, and I will restore your fortunes and gather you from all the nations and all the places where I have driven you…”

Sarah Louise McCool knew and accepted her plan from God.
Her life was a testament to the fact that we shouldn’t sit and watch our life go by, but to live each moment and take nothing for granted.

God Bless you, Sandi!
May you rest in peace!

Kelly -

I am Kelly Skinner, and I love Sandi McCool

To laugh often and love much:
To win the respect of intelligent people and the affection of children;
To appreciate beauty;
To find the best in others;
To give one’s self;
To leave the world a little better, whether by a healthy child, a
Garden patch or redeemed social condition;
To have played and laughed with enthusiasm and sung with exultation;
To know even one life has breathed easier because you have lived…
This is to have succeeded. - Ralph Waldo Emerson

Sandi McCool succeeded in life despite her terrifying illness…
She was a beacon of hope for all of us that one day may face
similar circumstances, only aspiring to live up to the level of
dignity that she exemplified…

Even in the worst of times, and despite the fact that she never
received her only wish of one normal day, Sandi wasn’t defined
By her illness; rather she defined it on her own terms.

My friend Sandi was:

- A Grape Slushy from Sonic
- Blue Plate chicken and dumplings
- Cheetos with Mayonnaise…anything with mayonnaise
- Cherry Milkshakes
- Warm Jell-o
- Spinach from a can
- Sushi and popsicles
- Banana Pudding
- Lemon Lime Gatorade
- Crossword Puzzles and Gossip magazines
- Coffee group on Thursdays
- Aerosmith
- High Heels and Sequins
- Glittery Eye shadow and perfect fingernails
- Calla Lilies
- Ahava lotion
- Chanel perfume and Jimmy Choo purses
- Big sunglasses
- The color Pink
- A gold tag necklace

…She cherished her wedding rings, her husband Alan and her dog Chloe…not necessarily in that order…her friends, her cell phone and driving her car with the windows down and the radio loud…

She was a fashionista with a devilish grin, an infectious laugh and many charming personalities, depending on which wig she was wearing…we all remember Vegas Sandi…

She was intelligent, witty, kind and honest…she was loyal, a good listener and a great secret keeper…she was girly, she was tough…she was a force with a spirit that made her exceptional…

Many of these things may seem a little quirky, but they WERE my friend Sandi.

God Bless You Sandi; you will always be a part of me. I love and miss my friend, but I’m glad you are not hurting anymore…

Meredith -

I am Meredith Latimer, and I love Sandi McCool.

I am Alan’s younger sister. I met Sandi when I was 18, a freshman in college, and she and Alan had just begun dating. As the YOUNGER sister, I had always been used to being treated like “Alan’s little sister,” but Sandi NEVER treated me that way. From day one, she always treated me like a friend, and after she and Alan married, she never treated me like a sister-in-law, always like a sister. When I got married, she was the only person I could imagine standing next to me as my matron of honor, and when we found out that we were expecting our daughter, she was the only person that Hays and I could imagine as her godmother.

I coach a high school dance team, and Sandi loved getting to know each team and watching them dance. A few years ago when I was about 34 weeks pregnant, Sandi volunteered to help me take my team to Dance Camp at Auburn and be our Assistant Coach. She was SO excited to go. One of the traditions at camp is for all of the coaches to learn a dance and perform it for the girls, and since I wasn’t able to dance, Sandi wanted to jump right in there and do the coaches’ dance in my place. She got up there and absolutely ROCKED that dance, and as if she hadn’t already, she sealed the deal and made my dancers fall in love with her. From then on, they didn’t care if I was there, but I had to be sure to invite Sandi to everything that we did. And I can’t imagine finding a woman with better qualities to introduce those young girls to.

Since I’ve known Sandi for so long, she was there through many of my biggest life experiences. She supported me, loved me, and advised me through so many different situations, no matter how big or small. And now I am so blessed that Sandi and her personality have become a part of me. Even today, I am able to stand up here and talk to you because I can hear her telling me to “put on my big girl panties and just do it!” She’s been giving me that piece of advice for as long as I’ve known her, and I know she’s told many of you in here to put on your big girl panties, too! Sandi showed us what it means to have real strength.

I’d like to share a passage about strength.

A strong woman works out every day to keep her body in shape…
But a woman of strength kneels in prayer to keep her soul in shape.
A strong woman isn’t afraid of anything…
But a woman of strength shows courage in the midst of her fear.

A strong woman won’t let anyone get the best of her…

But a woman of strength gives the best of her to everyone.

A strong woman makes mistakes and avoids the same in the future…
But a woman of strength realizes that life’s mistakes can be God’s blessing and capitalizes on them.
A strong woman walks sure footedly…
But a woman of strength knows that God will catch her when she falls.
A strong woman wears the look of confidence on her face…
But a woman of strength wears grace.

A strong woman has faith that she is strong enough for the journey…

But a woman of strength knows that it is in the journey that she will become strong.
-Anonymous

One thing that Sandi always said when complimented on her strength was that she was only strong because we were with her all the way. So I know she would want to thank everyone for helping her to be so strong for so long.
Sandi was truly a woman of strength. If you only met her once, or you knew her very well, I know she touched your heart. And we are all blessed because of her.

I love you, Sister.

My sweet sister

2011-11-24T13:20:00.001-06:00

My beautiful sister, Sandi, passed away yesterday at home. I have never met anyone like her... I never will again. I am honored to be able to call her my sister and my friend. While I am so glad that she is now whole and perfectly healed, the void that her earthly absence leaves will never be filled. Please keep my family, especially my brother, Alan, in your prayers.

Champions of Hope 2011

2011-10-20T05:40:00.000-05:00

Wow. That is the only thing that I can say about Champions of Hope this year. I was so BLESSED to be there and be a part of it and be able to run the 5K. Well, I ran MOST of it, and walked a little ;-)

The vision that Sandi had has become, what I feel anyway, her ministry to those in the Wiregrass area. And what a great turnout. They raised over $100,000 to be used IN THAT AREA and the number increases every year. Now, here are some pics:

Sandi, Alan, and MA

Wesley Cook performed Friday night at the Pre-Race pasta dinner! That man is a music to my ears and my eyes :-)!

Three of my sweet sweet girls came down the night before the race and hung out with my family at Alan and Sandi's house. I cannot tell you how much it meant to me to have them there. They bless my life in SO many ways and obviously Margaret Anne loves them!

My sweet Cougarettes and me. Getting ready to run for Sandi!

CeCe, Jordan, MA, Wesley Cook, Jordan, and Olivia

Me, CeCe, Olivia. Sandi, Jordan, Jordan, and Mrs. Kathy

Me and THE Wesley Cook :-)

Sandi and her sweet Momma

Me and my sister. I love her SO MUCH! I am so blessed to have her as a Sis and best friend!

CeCe and Sandi. CeCe is another one of my sweet girls who joined us the morning of the race! I am so thankful that she and her mom were able to come down and show their support!

My Momma and Daddy. Love.

Me and my hubsy

MA and her Nonna. Nonna and Grandpa were so sweet to watch MA for us during the race and they also kept her later when Hays and I went to the AU-UF game (War Eagle!).

All of the teams that participated in the race!

Me and sweet Jordan Norris

The survivors got on stage for a little pep rally. They are so inspiring.

And last but not least, thanks to all that donated to our team, the "Cougarettes Kick Breast Cancer" team was able to raise $530.00+ dollars to present during the awards ceremony. Thank you to all of you who donated and helped! Champions of Hope would not be as great as it is without people like you!

A Request.

2011-09-27T13:08:00.002-05:00

Hey All! I normally don't do these things, but this year I have been overwhelmed by the fact that several of my sweet CCHS Cougarettes want to participate in the Southeast Alabama Medical Center's Champions of Hope 5K. I have decided to start a team page for them so that they can reach their fundraising goal.
As some of you may know, Champions of Hope was born from an idea that my sister-in-law, Sandi, had when talking with some friends. She wanted a way to help women in the wiregrass area who were suffering from breast cancer. She realized that many of these women did not have the support and resources that she has and wanted to make those things available to them. You can go to http://www.samcfoundation.org/ to read about what they do.
My page for the race is HERE. You can donate to my personal page or Click "My Team Page" and donate to the team. The girls are REALLY excited that they are going to be able to go and we would all appreciate if you would help us reach our team goal. You can also join our team and participate in the race with us, we would love to have you!

If you want to see pics from previous year's races, click HERE and HERE.

Thank you so much for all of your support, and please remember to keep my beautiful, strong sister-in-law, Sandi McCool, in your prayers.

Check out my Cougarettes and the CCHS Cougar Band!

2011-09-12T06:14:00.000-05:00

They are one of the best parts of my job and I am so proud of all of their hard work!

Click this link to see part of the Cougar Band Halftime show!

http://www.myfoxal.com/category/195956/video-landing-page?clipId=6232210&autostart=true

I'm BACK!

2011-08-22T05:42:00.000-05:00

Helloooo there internets! I have missed you. For some reason this summer seemed busier than when I am actually working. I think it was all from lack of routine and trying to soak up time with my sweet MA. Who is potty trained now, by the way! THAT was something that was in some ways much easier and in some ways MUCH tougher than I thought. She is still having a few issues here and there, but she lives her life in big girl panties now and it is so strange to be washing my baby girl's UNDERWEAR!
She has grown up SO fast.

I will have lots of pictures to post soon, but I just wanted to let you know we are back and ready for some blogging action! I will leave you with Margaret Anne's 3 year old portraits that I took when we were at the beach.

My cup runneth over.

Still here, folks

2011-06-27T17:05:00.000-05:00

Hey all! We are still here and having a great summer. I just thought you guys should know! I will try to update soon, but no promises, as I am soaking up all of this precious time with my family. I hope you are all having a wonderful summer!

In Honor of Graduation Day...

2011-05-26T06:31:00.000-05:00

Sorry for the lack of posts, people. More issues with our home computer, busy time getting ready for the end of school and taking my dancers to camp next week, etc. BUT here I am and I have lots of pictures to blog in the next few days!

So in honor of Graduation day, I thought I would post some pictures of the tea that we had in honor of Katie (the Cougarette captain and my ONLY senior this year). I am so sad that she is leaving me, but I am so happy that she will be going on to bigger and better things at AUBURN UNIVERSITY! War Eagle!

Yummy cake

Whiteboard needed to say SOMETHING instead of being blank!

Food table

Card and gift from moi

Some of my gorgeous sweet girls!

More of my gorgeous sweet girls

Margaret Anne was learning to curtsy.

She loves these girls so much! Katie, Jordan, MA, and Olivia

All of my 2010-2011 Cougarettes and MA

Warning: Inappropriate! Margaret Anne pooted and thought it was hysterical. They were laughing at her!

Katie and Margaret Anne. Katie is also Miss Clay-Chalkville and will be competing in the Miss Alabama pageant in a few weeks. MA tells me she "wants to be a pwincess like Katie!"

Katie and me

Getting ready to watch the video that Jordan made that chronicles Katie's 3 years as a Cougarette. What a sweet video! And it was a tearjerker!

WAR EAGLE!

MA was fueled up on sugar and running around like a madwoman!

The tea was such a blast and I hope Katie enjoyed it! I know we all did and she will be missed for many reasons (Katie is also one of MA's favorite babysitters!).

My hero

2011-04-10T14:18:00.000-05:00

EVERYONE should click HERE and view this video of my amazing sister, Sandi, and her journey as she fights through Stage IV breast cancer. This really puts it all in perspective.

"Praise the LORD, O my soul, and forget not all his benefits- who forgives all your sins and heals all your diseases, who redeems your life from the pit and crowns you with love and compassion." Psalm 103:3-4

Fun times

2011-04-08T06:15:00.000-05:00

I was lucky enough to go to a Masquerade/Mardi Gras ball with some friends a few months ago and here are just a few pics. I am lucky that I work with some wonderful people and that we enjoy hanging out outside of work, too!!

Margaret Anne and me before it was time to go. She kept telling me I looked like a princess! Nothing like a two year old with a princess obsession to make you feel pretty :)

I loved the dress :-)

My awesome work friends!

From left to right: me, Sharon,Teresa, Jimmy, and John

I had to have a long formal gown so I was so happy to find one that I loved at Cache! It was navy and very classic so I hope that I will be able to wear it for years to come. I also LOVED my earrings. They were so big and obnoxious and sparkly and everything that I love! They were peacocks with huge sparkly tails and I got them at Charming Charlie.
I had a blast at the "Bal" and can't wait to go back next year!

The Greatest Show on Earth

2011-04-06T06:03:00.000-05:00

We took Margaret Anne to the circus when it was in town at the end of January. Hays got us GREAT seats and she LOVED all of the action, especially the animals. And we were close enough to smell them, too. GROSS!! We didn't get a lot of great pics of Margaret Anne, but I did get some good shots of the action!

Completely mesmerized... (sorry, bad pic of the hubs)

The elephants were fun to watch!

These were two HUGE dudes who kept balancing on each other and lifting each other up Cirque du Soleil style. It was weird but kinda cool...

Before the tigers came out, MA kept saying "No Tiger! Mean!" but when they finally came out she liked them and didn't seem at all scared. I hope they pay that tiger trainer guy a lot... I'm not sure you could pay me ENOUGH to get in there with those tigers! They were gorgeous animals though.

The Ringmaster

This was towards the end and she was getting tired! But just talking away.

It was all really fun. And also fun that Hays was so shocked at how awesome the show was. I don't think he remembered the circus being such a production and seemed a little surprised, almost like a kid himself! That made it even more fun to see him enjoy it so much.

CUTE Easter shirts!

2011-04-04T08:16:00.000-05:00

I know I have tons of blogger friends and IRL friends with little children, so I want all of you to check out my friend's Etsy site! It caught my eye yesterday when she posted it on Facebook and I just thought her stuff was SO cute AND reasonably priced! It is called Southern Stitchery and you can click HERE to see all of her precious monogrammed and appliqued Easter things. And not only does she have Easter for boys and girls, she has some really cute other designs as well, and her sizes range all the way from 0-3 months to youth large.

Check out what I ordered for Margaret Anne!

I LOVE this!

Cute Easter Bunny Applique! She can do any letter (of course) and in blue for boys.

I am in love with this mermaid's sparkly tail :)

And here are some boy items that I think are really cute...

So Sweet!

I don't know what my thing is with reptiles and amphibians, but I love the dinosaur and frog.

And IF I was a Bama fan, I would love this Bama Elephant :)

But I am sure she could customize something like this to be orange and blue for us Auburn fans! War Eagle!

So, go visit Southern Stitchery check her stuff out!

First Haircut

2011-04-03T14:03:00.000-05:00

Our good friend and family hairdresser Tina gave Margaret Anne a haircut a few months ago (yes, I am just getting around to posting it :)) and I am glad I brought my camera. I thought she would do ok because she lets me fix her hair every day, but you never know with a 2 year old... but MA did do great and let Tina cut her hair like such a big girl! The worst part was that she got mad at me for taking her little fleece dress off that she had on because it would have been in Tina's way, but as soon as she got over that we were home free.

Getting it wet

Being a big girl for Miss Tina!

Showing off my new 'do

We only had about an inch cut off, just enough to even it out in the back. I can't believe she was almost two and a half before I got her hair cut, but I let it go long enough. The cut really didn't make it look any shorter because it is so curly, but it does look much thicker and healthier, and to me made her look so much more like a little girl and not a baby!

Hodge Podge!

2011-03-30T06:17:00.000-05:00

Hey internets! We are alive and well here in Latimer land, and life is busy as always. This will be a "randomosity" post for SURE but that's ok.
Lately I've been a little obsessed with getting back in shape! I joined a website called My Fitness Pal and it tracks your calories and exercise. I like it because it really makes me think about something before I eat it! Also you can have friends on there (kind of like Facebook), so people can support you and hold you accountable. Its pretty cool.

Pure Barre

Believe it or not folks, this is a TRICEP exercise! And it's hard. And that is my friend Danielle front and center.

I've really gotten back into Pure Barre and have been going several times a week since November. I cannot say enough about how much it does for your body and my overall mental health. I am physically stronger now than I was in high school... and I never thought I would be able to say that! I am very appreciative of my sweet hubby who always encourages me to go :) If you have a Pure Barre studio in your area, I HIGHLY recommend you check it out. And they have not asked me to endorse their technique, I just truly understand the benefits of it!

We had Spring Break a couple of weeks ago and Miss Priss and I had lots of fun. Here are several random pictures... excuse the quality, all taken on my phone!

Playin' at the park

Bathtime hairdo

We had a few friends over to watch the Bachelor finale, so I set the mood with some candles and roses... "Will you accept this rose?"

Charlie, Andrew, and Margaret Anne, the three Muske-terrors!

Sweet things! They had soooo much fun playing together.

We bought "Tangled" yesterday for Margaret Anne. She calls it "Pink Princess" and was so excited to watch it. (We saw it twice at the theater)

She was totally mesmerized... notice Daddy in the background playing Angry Birds ;-)

I also use Pink Princess as an example when I want her to sit still long enough for a braid... she loves to get her hair braided like Rapunzel!

Can you believe how long her hair has gotten? Presh.

That's it for now folks. I hope not to wait six weeks between posts next time!

To My Funny Valentine

2011-02-14T17:31:00.001-06:00

Dear Margaret Anne,

Today you are 2 and a half years old. I try to write these little letters to you every six months so I will remember how you are growing and changing. I don't think I will ever be able to capture your personality in one of these little updates, but I will try.

You are coming into your own personality and I have to say you are... hilarious! One of the things I love most about your daddy is his sense of humor and I think you inherited that. I love how you make me laugh several times a day. You wake up in the morning calling out for daddy and I and you are so opinionated from the moment you wake up until the moment you go to sleep... I think you inherited that from me... yikes! You are still extremely picky about what you eat, but you are VERY polite about it, most of the time. If I try to offer you a bite of something, you usually look at it and say "No thank you."

You are also very polite when you get a compliment (and you get lots of compliments). If someone tells you that they like your hair, or your outfit, or that you look SO pretty, you always smile and say "Thank you!"

Yesterday you took communion for the first time. It was very unexpected and it was all I could do not to cry. You came into church for communion and I honestly thought you would get a blessing. But you stood there at the altar with your hands folded just like mommy and daddy and you were so reverent as you lifted your little hands up to Father Rick to accept your bread. I told him that you could just have a blessing and he said "Look at her. She's ready, its time." So he placed the wafer in your hand and you took your first communion. Just like that. I pray every night that you will learn to love the Lord and understand the sacrifices that he made so that you can live life abundantly, on earth and in heaven. I think you could sense that there was something special about being in church... I hope that continues.

You are so smart, Margaret Anne. It makes me laugh to think that a two year old can be as smart as you are. You are scared of some things, like bugs and snakes, and I am baffled by that because I don't know why you would be scared, but you are. Lately we have had to convince you every night before bathtime that there will not be any bugs in your bath (No idea where this came from) and you say "no bugs allowed!" The other day you said, "Daddy, look at this!" just as clear as day and it was a piece of fuzz that you thought was a bug, so you said "Daddy get it, get it!!" over and over until Daddy got it away from you. I like that you know Daddy is there to protect you and I hope you know he will protect you as much as he can for as long as he can, and I will too.

Little girl, I am so blessed to have you in my life. I feel so blessed that the Lord trusts your Daddy and me to take care of you. I love you, Valentine.

Love,

Mommy

Ordinary

2011-02-04T16:33:00.001-06:00

Well, our computer is back, and I will hopefully be posting lots of precious Margaret Anne pictures soon. However, We've gotten (as usual) caught up on the daily tasks that never seem to go away and always seem so monotonous and never ending. It's funny, even Margaret Anne has caught onto our routine and will chant it in order. For example, when she's going to bed she'll say "rock rock minute, hug kiss, go bed." Sometimes, before dinner, she'll say "Mommy, make my dinner, bath, jammies." She knows exactly what is about to happen and usually gets thrown off just a little if things don't happen in that order.
Sometimes I get annoyed at the monotony of life. Get up, get ready, work, home, scheduled dinner and bath, MA's bedtime, then Mommy/Daddy chill time, then bed. Repeat 5 times, then have a weekend that involves activities that are all scheduled around laundry that needs to be done and groceries that must be bought.
Sometimes the monotony of it is overwhelming. Sometimes the lack of freedom is... overwhelming and stressful.
I was reading a post on this blog today and that led me to these verses that were originally posted on this blog.
Here are the verses:

Now observe that when that clever harlot, our natural reason . . . , takes a look at married life, she turns up her nose and says, “Alas, must I rock the baby, wash its diapers, make its bed, smell its stench, stay up nights with it, take care of it when it cries, heal its rashes and sores. . . ?” [LW 45:39]

What then does Christian faith say to this? It opens its eyes, looks upon all these insignificant, distasteful, and despised duties in the Spirit, and is aware that they are all adorned with divine approval as with the costliest gold and jewels. It says, O God, because I am certain that thou hast created me as a man and hast from my body begotten this child, I also know for a certainty that it meets with thy perfect pleasure. I confess to thee that I am not worthy to rock the little babe or wash its diapers, or to be entrusted with the care of the child and its mother. How is it that I, without any merit, have come to this distinction of being certain that I am serving thy creature and thy most precious will? O how gladly will I do so, though the duties should be even more insignificant and despised. Neither frost nor heat, neither drudgery nor labor, will distress or dissuade me, for I am certain that it is thus pleasing in thy sight. . . . God, with all his angels and creatures is smiling—not because the father is washing diapers, but because he is doing so in Christian faith.[LW 45:39-40]

Wow. What a way to look at the monotony and the "mundane" parts of your daily life. But in truth, they are most definitely not mundane, or boring, or even trivial, even though they might seem that way to an outsider in a different place in life. And they seem that way to us parents of small children when we are in the midst of going through with all of the little details.
How lucky we are to be able to raise our children. How lucky to clean up their messes and make all of their meals and discipline them even though sometimes it seems SO tasking.
I know I will think about these verses next time I feel so tired of doing all of the necessary tasks, and hopefully I will be encouraged!

Still waiting...

2011-01-26T06:19:00.000-06:00

On our computer. For the love!! So much has happened! I have Christmas pics that I would love to put up, and Margaret Anne got her first hair cut last weekend that I got pics of! Tina only cut off less than an inch, just to even it up, so don't freak, people. I did NOT cut off those presh little curls. We are also taking the Princess to the Circus on Sunday and her daddy had to get her VIP seats ;-) I will update with pics as soon as I can. Please don't forget about us, all two people who read this!

Geek Squad and The Bachelor

2011-01-04T06:30:00.000-06:00

Well, folks, we are still alive and kicking over here at the Latimer household. Unfortunately our computer is not. It is back again with the Geek Squad and let me just say how thankful I am that we purchased the $100 protection plan that was offered to us with our computer, because the motherboard died and we would be looking for a new computer right now which we CANNOT afford. So my advice to all is when making a big purchase, go ahead and throw in that protection plan!

Now, because I cannot upload any of our beautiful Christmas pictures at this time, let me just say that we had a very blessed Christmas and now Margaret Anne has more toys than she will ever be able to play with. She may very well be the luckiest little girl on the planet.

Now on to the most important part of this post... The Bachelor, Brad Womack 2.0.

You guys, I was always a Brad fan, and actually thought he did the right thing by not picking either girl on his last stint as the Bachelor. However, he comes back with promises to commit and make a choice, and I can't wait to see how he wades through all these desperate crazies. My favorite part is that he is 38 and the OLDEST girl of the thirty available for him to choose from is 32. I also think it's slightly hilarious that my good friend's husband (who will not be named without her permission) dated Jackie "the NY artist" before he met and fell in love with my beautiful friend. Ha!

Now, I am going to direct you all once again to Lincee's blog for some serious laughs at her Bachelor episode recaps. Seriously, reading her recaps may be 90% of why I still watch this mess. She cracks me up and I'm pretty sure if we ever met IRL we would be friends. You guys go, laugh, watch, read, and enjoy and feel free to leave any comments that you have on Brad or last night's episode.

"Santa... Are You??"

2010-12-19T15:27:00.000-06:00

Today we got dressed up, had a photo shoot, and decided that it would be a good day to go to Bass Pro Shops and see Santa.
Here are some pictures from our little photo shoot. I hate the glare from our screen door :( Some were really cute though!

Now after almost an hour and a half in line, I regretted choosing today UNTIL we actually go to Santa. We used our time in line to chat, and we talked about how we are supposed to sit in Santa's lap and tell him what you want for Christmas. The conversation went something like this:

Me: Margaret Anne, are you going to sit on Santa's lap?
MA: Noooo.
Me: Are you going to tell him what you want for Christmas?
MA: Yes. Argwet want presents.
Me: What kind of presents?
MA: Presents.
Me: Are you going to sit in Santa's lap so he can see what a good girl you are?
MA: Nooooo.
MA: Santa, are you? (this is MA speak for "Santa, where are you?")

So, considering it was an hour past her naptime when we actually got close to Santa, I was fully prepared for a meltdown/fit. However, I let her watch the other kids getting on Santa's lap (none of them were freaking out, thank GOD) and when we got close to him she said "Hey Santa!" and looked at me and said "Like it!" Y'all, my heart melted. Then she got right on his lap and sat there like a big girl for her picture. Unfortunately we didn't capture any of her big smiles because she was being a little bashful, but when Santa asked her what she wanted for Christmas she did say "Presents." Here is her Santa pic:

I am so proud of her, I just thought she did great! I totally forgot about the hour and a half in line after seeing how much she loved seeing Santa.

I need this today. Do you?

2010-12-15T05:58:00.000-06:00

“Finally, brothers, whatever is true, whatever is honorable, whatever is just, whatever is pure, whatever is lovely, whatever is commendable, if there is any excellence, if there is anything worthy of praise, think about these things.” Philippians 4:8

I can't believe it's been three years.

2010-12-14T06:31:00.001-06:00

George Folkerts

First day of our Field Biology of the Southern Appalachians class (3 week trip),
Summer of 2002

Three years ago today, George Folkerts left this earth. I still have a hard time grasping the fact that he will never lead me into another swamp or citronelle pond, will never play trivia (as Biobug) or make me put on a pair of smelly "wet shoes." I can't believe he'll never try to get me to smoke another Camel Light or give me another lecture about the "real world." I can't believe all of the things I've done and learned in my life that I never would have known or experienced thanks to him. I remember all the times he talked me into going out and socializing/playing pool when I should have been at home studying. His reasons were clear and understandable - he thought that young people should be young and live life to the fullest while they could. I remember how he knew teaching was my talent and pushed me into it. He counseled me through money crises, boyfriend troubles, school troubles, and everything a college student deals with. He taught me not to be afraid of the unknown. He taught me to appreciate the little things and to come to understand the "green blur." I listened to countless roadside lectures from George and learned SO very much. Thank you George. I still miss you.

I Elfed us again!

2010-12-10T15:15:00.001-06:00

SEC Weekend in the ATL

2010-12-09T07:12:00.000-06:00

Well, I thought I would add a few pics to Susannah's post about our fun weekend!

Somehow Sus and I got NO pics together, but we had so much fun and talked incessantly! It was such a blast and I hope we were decent houseguests, Sus was a great hostess. Jason wasn't so bad, either! Sorry about the quality of these pics, but since our computer is STILL with the geek squad, all I had was my phone for pictures.

This is how Margaret Anne and Emma spent the end of the game. Wasn't that a great game? War Eagle!

The next morning, Emma made sure that MA and Daisy ate their breakfast. She is such a sweet precious thing!

We took these girls to lunch and shopping on Saturday and it could not have gone any better they were SO well behaved! Then we enjoyed an awesome performance by our Auburn tigers and laughed over how silly people were acting about everything on Facebook! I've found that FB can be very entertaining on game days.

I think the guys had a blast, but since their hotel bathroom was kind of gross (Hays describe it as it looked like there had been a "doo doo murder") they came home pretty early on Sunday and so Sus and I left the kids with them while we did a little more shopping. I can't wait to see the Edwards family again soon! But we also missed Laura and Peebs too, and I hope we all get to hang soon.

"Christmas, Christmas time is here, time for Joy, and time for Cheer..." and Christmas Cards!

2010-12-02T06:06:00.000-06:00

I love getting Christmas cards in the mail. When they arrive, I truly feel like it is the Christmas season. I also love getting photo cards with pictures of friends and family, especially those who live far away and I can't see them and their precious children (or dog children) as much as I would like. It's also really fun to look at cards from years past and see how much people and their sweet babies have changed.
Last year was the first year that I was able to send cards, and if you remember, these were some of my pics from my Christmas photo shoot last year...

This year I am going to order my photo cards from Shutterfly! Right now, they are doing a promotion for 50 free holiday cards! They have such a great selection of cards and layouts to choose from. Click here to see. Shutterfly also had great gift items like these calendars (Click here) and personalized thank you notes (see those by clicking here). I personally love when people give personalized thank you notes as gifts... I think they are cute and very useful!

If you are interested in participating in the blog promotion for Shutterfly and getting 50 free cards, click here.

Happy Card Shopping!

Remember, I don't like to share my finished card until after it has been mailed out! You guys will see it soon...

Thankful!

2010-11-29T05:21:00.000-06:00

We are still here, everyone! Sorry for the lack of posts. Our home computer has a virus, so I haven't been able to do much on the blog front. We had a great Thanksgiving and were so blessed to have a combined Thanksgiving with my family and Hays' parents. It was so much fun and GREAT to see a still undefeated Auburn team! War Eagle!

I did not get any pictures so I am going to link to THIS POST on my good friend Fran's blog so you can see our cute babies playing over the holiday. I hope to be back with more posts from a fixed computer soon!

Katie's Senior Pictures

2010-11-02T15:20:00.000-05:00

Please go here to look at my sweet dance captain Katie's senior pictures. She is so gorgeous and the photographer did a great job!

I am going to be SO SAD when she leaves me!

Trick or Treat! (Halloween, Part 2)

2010-11-01T05:37:00.000-05:00

On Sunday night, we continued the tradition of getting together with my best friend, Amanda, and her entire family at her sister's house. We got there early so that the kids could play a little bit and then we could take them out to trick or treat. Alyson has a terrific neighborhood for trick or treating! She also has really sweet, fun neighbors.

Amanda's little girl Emily is 4 months older than Margaret Anne, and has really good verbal skills for a 2 year old. At one point, Margaret Anne came over and said "Face hurt" and I asked if she wanted me to kiss it, and she shook her head. Amanda asked her if she wanted Emily to kiss it and she said "yes," so she walked over to Emily and said "Kiss it." Emily looked at MA and then looked at Amanda and said "Her daddy needs to fix her." So hilarious!

Now for the pictures:

Cute Cheese Ball

Mustard spider web

Ghost Sandwiches

Bug Cake

Me and Amanda

Our precious girls, Emily and Margaret Anne

Trick or Treat! Margaret Anne did so well saying "trick or treat" and "thank you!"

Carrying her prize

Walking with Mommy - gotta hold hands!

Sweet girls taking turns. If you can't tell, Emily is Dorothy and Ella Kate (middle) was a nurse! Her scrubs said "Ella, R.N."

Emily and Margaret Anne holding hands. MA loved this!

They walked up to the door holding hands, then Emily had enough. Ha!

Halloween, Part One

2010-11-01T05:19:00.000-05:00

We had a very busy weekend. Margaret Anne got to have so much Halloween fun, and I think she really loved it. I swear, as soon as I feel sad about being a grown up with real responsibilities, I am able to watch Margaret Anne and experience childhood through her eyes. It is truly a joy to watch.

On Saturday, Jamie, Elaine, and I got Charlie, Andrew, and Margaret Anne together to take pictures in their costumes, while the boys watched the Auburn/ Ole Miss game. War Eagle.
Natalie came to join in the fun. We had so much good food and fellowship, it was a blast. My man T-dub had a little cold, so Jamie decided to wait until Sunday to put him in his giraffe costume. Jamie, I want to see pics!

Our better attempts at getting them together while all in costume.

My little Cheetah!

More Charlie love - true story... when we got there, Charlie was in just his diaper and they would not stop hugging and kissing. It was pretty cute!

"Margaret Anne! Help me get these orange lights down!"

Being dressed up is SO exhausting...

Cheetah prowling around.

"Here Margaret Anne, eat this leaf. I tried a few and they're GOOD."

Lady, quit taking my picture.

"I'm not doing anything... definitely not ripping leaves off this bush."

We really enjoyed our Saturday night with great friends. It will be so fun to watch these kids grow up together!

Charlie's Bday Party!

2010-10-27T06:29:00.001-05:00

We had a blast this past Saturday at Charlie's party. Jamie always knows how to make things look beautiful and Charlie's party was no exception. It was a beautiful day, and since we were all excited about the Auburn/LSU game, we all tried to dress accordingly. Margaret Anne wore her new Auburn dress, too!

MA loves her some Charlie. And I thought we would never get her away from the slide!

Each child got to decorate a pumpkin and take it home! We loved doing this and I thought the finished ones were so cute.

Margaret Anne's kitty cat pumpin.

Jamie made so much cute delicious food!

Charlie's special Birthday Cupcake! So cute!

I think he liked it. Such a precious family! We love them so much.

Decor...

Margaret Anne loved this see saw toy!

We tried to get a good picture of the guys, but Charlie wasn't having it! It was his party, he wanted to play!

Not a great pic of the three muske-terrors, but it was the best I could do! That's Jamie's nickname for them, by the way.

Then after all the kids had decorated their pumpkins, we decided Elaine's "pumpkin" Ava needed a costume, too!

So cute!

Part of our Momtourage group! Me, Elaine, and Jamie

Andrew, so cute and hard to get a picture of because he is so busy!

We also got to take home cookies. I may or may not have eaten Margaret Anne's. (Ok, I shared it with her.)

Thanks for having us, Jamie! We had so much fun!

Champions of Hope 2010

2010-10-18T07:46:00.000-05:00

Wow. I wanted to write this post as soon as I got home because I am so overwhelmed. Sandi, my sister in law, is such a remarkable, strong, brave woman. She was sitting on a porch one night with some good friends, and had a vision to start raising money for women in her area who have been diagnosed with breast cancer, and who are not as blessed with the insurance and resources that she has. So they began Champions of Hope. Three years ago, when they started the race/event, 400 people signed up. Last year, 800 people signed up. This year, approximately 1800 people signed up to participate. Her vision, her ministry to other women, has become something very large. And I think she doesn't even realize how important and powerful her story is. Besides the fact that she and her friends can put together a very fun, well organized event.

I could not be more proud to be Sandi's sister (in law). I am so very proud of her and I can't think of a person that I admire more in the world. She is my best friend, my family, my sister, and I love her so very much.

Now, on to the race day pics!

Margaret Anne started out the morning by jamming out to some Wesley Cook!

She danced with sweet Kate.

And hung out with Nonna, Daddy, and Grammy!

Hays crossed the finish line first!

And then I finished! I want to mention the sweet girl also named Meredith that I met while running. She said she reads my blog, so hey Meredith! It was so nice to meet you!!

Sandi and me

Sandi and Alan

Alan and me. P.S. Alan hasn't run in a YEAR and finished the 5k in 30 min. Dang.

Kate was in charge of the Survivor tent and did a beautiful job!

The Thalian Mardi Gras Society T-shirt won for T-shirt design!

Our tributes to Sandi on the Tribute Wall

Grammy, Grampa, and Grampy watching all the fun!

Margaret Anne with her medal and Bubba

Nonna checking out the medal

Watching the awards. It started getting a little hot in the sun...

Sandi did a terrific job speaking! She is truly inspiring for everyone who meets her.

Kelli Hall being crowned chairperson.

Margaret Anne was ready to go home!

We had such a great weekend with family. I feel so very blessed.

Sandi - Southern Living Breast Cancer Survivor

2010-10-05T13:20:00.000-05:00

Hey all! Please take some time and visit THIS LINK to read about my amazing, brave sister-in-law, Sandi. Isn't she gorgeous?? We like to say Alan outkicked his coverage with her :-)

Race for the Cure!

2010-09-22T06:11:00.000-05:00

I decided to join a team this year for Birmingham's Race for the Cure! I figure it will be good practice for the next weekend's Champions of Hope 5K in Dothan, AL! I joined my friend Lindsey's UAB Golden Girls team and I really hope you will go to my team page and make a donation to help support breast cancer research. My SIL Sandi is the reason that this cause is VERY near and dear to my heart. Click HERE to go to my page and make a donation. Please take a minute to go HERE, HERE,and HERE to read about my Sandi.

Gorgeous Sunday Afternoon

2010-09-14T17:00:00.000-05:00

This past Sunday was SO perfect, so Hays packed us all a picnic and we headed to Aldridge Gardens. I threw in my camera, and was SO glad I did. We got some great pics of Margaret Anne! I think she enjoyed being outside when it wasn't so hot. I know I did!

Another performance!

2010-09-03T21:23:00.000-05:00

Here are my girls at halftime of the Paws vs Claws Bowl tonight. The music was played a little faster than they were used to, but they still did a great job!

My Girls!

2010-09-03T16:50:00.000-05:00

Here are the Cougarettes performing today at our CCHS vs. HTHS pep rally. They make me SO proud, because they work so hard to be this good. Love them!

We love football!

2010-08-29T08:33:00.000-05:00

Last year when we had to bring Margaret Anne to football games, she couldn't walk yet. I was a little worried about taking her this year because I thought she would be all over the place. Well, she had so much fun and wanted to stay right with my dance line and dance with them and the awesome Cougar Band! Even though CCHS lost their first game of the year, we had a blast at the game.
For example... my sweet dancers loved dancing with her and showed her how to shake her poms and do a body roll. Uh Oh!

I am really glad she enjoys it, because there will be many many games in her future!

My new favorite book...

2010-08-24T18:00:00.000-05:00

I started reading this book last night and could NOT put it down. I had cried and laughed out loud SEVERAL times by page 33. I am not one to love football books, but I do love God and like (not quite LOVE unless its Auburn) football, so it really hit home with me. I get SO annoyed at Hays sometimes during football season because I feel like football unintentionally becomes more important to him than anything, including air and food. He knows I feel this way. This book kind of gives me an understanding that its not just him!
Chad is a friend of mine, and I am so impressed with his ability to be witty and honest and godly at the same time. I always knew he was hilarious and I am glad other people can experience his wit and wisdom too! You can order this book online at Amazon and Books a Million and Barnes and Noble. I was NOT asked to blog about this, but I was SO taken in by this book and I just really wanted to share it with you all. If you live in or around the Birmingham area, Chad is going to be signing books at Alabama Booksmith in Homewood on Friday, August 27th from 4-6. I plan on being there and getting all of my copies signed!

Student Teachers

2010-08-23T17:11:00.000-05:00

This article was written by a friend of mine. I think he speaks the truth about teaching and our students in a way that I can't. I hope you enjoy reading it as much as I did.

Student Teachers

Brandon Renfroe

After teaching in public schools for a few years, you learn things. Not everything, mind you. Certainly not the inner workings of the adolescent mind (as if that mystery could be fully plumbed). But small things. Quirky things.

I know, for example, that the paper towels in the boys’ bathroom will be long gone by noon, and will not be replaced for the rest of the day. But I also know that an unused towel or two will often fall, unnoticed, into the top of a (mostly) unused wastebasket, thereby making itself available to the restroom-savvy (and brave) individual. Too, though generally not very good with my hands, I know more about the inner-workings of large copiers than one might expect, and can clean out a copier jam with a cool precision approaching ferocity.

The beginning of a new school year is always a bit unnerving. No matter how comfortable a teacher is in the classroom, regardless of how well-prepared an instructor may be, there will always be “hiccups” the first few days. Those who prefer an orderly environment await the upheaval as new students arrive, schedules change constantly, and chaos is the order of the day.

Every year presents its own unique challenges. As everyone knows, communicating with teenagers can be difficult on good days—and that is when we speak the same language. But when new students arrive from foreign countries, the language barrier becomes much more pronounced. Upon informing a young woman fresh from Germany that she would need a calculator for class, she responded: “What’s a ‘calculator’?” (As I later learned, what I should have said was der taschenrechner.)

With over one hundred and fifty youngsters under my charge (169, but who’s counting?), I often give my students a brief “information sheet” to fill out on the first day of school. Basic information is solicited: parent names, contact numbers, and other pertinent data. On the back of this paper, I ask the kids to tell me something about themselves. Though I do not pry, I encourage them to inform me of anything they might want me to know but would be uncomfortable sharing in front of their peers. (For, be it remembered, of all God’s creatures, none is more image-conscious than the teenager).

What I have learned from these papers over the years has been an education within itself. Most students happily comply with my request, eager to inform me of what makes them unique. One young man is an aspiring musician, even having (unless he is pulling my leg) an in-home recording studio. Another describes himself as a “gear-head,” with a passion for working on old automobiles. I enjoy learning these tidbits about my students, as it helps me become better acquainted with their interests.

Not all, however, are compliant. Rarely, a student will simply refuse to participate, sharing nothing except for the basic contact information. Of course I realize that some students are shy, or are otherwise hesitant to divulge personal information. (For, be it remembered, of all God’s creatures, none can be more standoffish than the teenager.) Still, it is usually the case that a student refusing to share lighthearted trivia is revealing more about themselves than perhaps they intend. Though it is unfair to stereotype, these students will typically be the ones who have an “attitude.” Wise teachers do not write these students off; rather, they know it will take a concerted effort to break through the student-imposed barriers.

On the other hand, I could wish that some students were not quite as forthcoming. To my dismay, one young woman recently listed her favorite hobby as “smoking.” Whether she thought her response would pass unnoticed is debatable; still, it was something I could not let go unmentioned. Calling her to my desk on a later occasion, I asked: “Why did you write this?” “Because I like to smoke,” she said. “But it’s not good for you to smoke,” I countered, before adding: “But even so, do you think that was a good thing to share with your teacher?” She was unmoved. “I just tell the truth.” “Well,” I said, “it is good to tell the truth—but you don’t have to tell everything you know!” The jury, I am afraid to say, it still out on this one.

Unusual responses aside, what I have learned from these information sheets has been eye-opening, and even moving, on more than one occasion. One sweet young woman suffers from Hodgkin’s disease. Though she will be absent for treatment on occasion, she still plans on participating in all the class activities she possibly can. Her determination is an example for all of us; how frail and pitiful our excuses seem in comparison!

Many students have experienced tremendous loss, even at a tender age. One informs me that she lost both parents in one fateful month, two years ago. Though she doubtless mourns, I have yet to see her without a positive attitude, and a smile that instantly brightens the room. More than one child speaks of having anxiety for loved ones serving in the military, all the while assuring me that a distant look is not intended as disrespect. Over and over again I am reminded: We rarely know the burdens others are called to bear.

If there is another recurring refrain that emerges, it is this: the absolutely critical role parents play in the lives of their children. Perhaps most alarming is that of all my students, a grand total of one praised his home life: “I have awesome parents,” a young man boasted. He is the happy exception: the vast majority of students confess their bitter disappointment in absentee parents. “My father is not the kind of dad he should be,” one writes. “I rarely see my mother,” another laments. While some teenage angst (or exaggeration) is to be expected, there is no denying that many homes in our nation lie in shambles.

The impact of this domestic destruction is readily seen in our schools—and in our congregations. To say nothing of the physical and emotional turmoil it generates, many teachers have seen firsthand the practical problems it produces: a lack of discipline in the classroom. The first reaction of most teachers to defiance is predictable, and understandable: we take it personally. “How dare you defy my authority,” we inwardly think—if not forthrightly say.

The truth is, in many modern homes the teenager is the authority. I do not make reference to unfortunate “modern” households in which the “tail” (i.e., the kids) wags the “dog” (i.e., the parents)—though this problem is an increasingly common one. Rather, I am speaking of those children who are, for all intents and purposes, de facto parents to younger siblings. Many kids leave school at the end of the day and go directly to a job—not for extra spending money, but to provide the necessities of life for their dependant families. It can be difficult for these grown-before-their-time adolescents to shift seamlessly from being the “authority” at home to a “subordinate” in the classroom. Though the rules still apply, experienced teachers understand that extenuating circumstances often color situations that otherwise seem clear-cut.

No one who is introspective can fail to learn much about himself (or herself) from daily interaction with students—and much of it is humbling. While most church members see their local preacher only a few times per week, and rarely in unguarded moments, students see their teachers every day—for better or worse. To be certain, any notions of perfection are quickly disabused in the classroom. As the inspired writer could have told any prospective teacher: “You have need of patience” (Hebrews 10:36).

Thus, while it may seem that our youngsters are often “tuned out” or are otherwise unobservant, do not be fooled: those little eyes are watching, and making careful note of what they see—and do not see. Thoughtful parents and teachers everywhere, take note: the future of our homes, our nation, and—in a very real sense—the church of tomorrow, is at stake.

Dancin' with Dora!

2010-08-17T17:31:00.001-05:00

This post is for Margaret Anne's Uncle Jordan (Hays's brother). He gave her this Dora doll for her birthday and she was a little scared of it at first, but we tried to reassure him that she would like it after a little while. Hays and I knew she would love Dora eventually, but I don't think Jordan believed us. Well, it only took her 3 days, because now she LOVES her dancing Dora doll! Here's your proof, Uncle J!

Disclaimer: It's a little long and on my phone so I don't know how to edit it. Also, please ignore the crazy Mommy voice in the background.

She is also wearing her new apron that she loves! And I don't know if I should be admitting this, but Dora kinda scares me.

Menu Monday!!

2010-08-16T16:45:00.000-05:00

Am I REALLY back in school? Yes, I am. After the whirlwind of the last few weeks, this first full week of school with kids may be difficult. I think that I can manage to cook a few meals though. Hence the Menu Monday post. This will require a trip to the grocery store though!
Sunday- Chicken Beef Bacon, rice, lima beans
Monday- Spaghetti
Tuesday- HOPEFULLY a Whole Foods Happy Hour Cheese Pizza (yum yums!!) PLEASE, Hays??
Wednesday- Sour cream pork chops
Thursday - leftovers from Tuesday or Wednesday
Friday- Shrimp hibatchi fried rice
Saturday - Hair Night at Tina's, woot woot!! Mexican feast cooked by Jill!

I cannot WAIT to get into a normal routine. It feels like my last few weeks have revolved around Hays and I doing work to get ready for MA's bday party. It stinks that half of it went unnoticed because all of the outside fun and splashing was rained out. Hays worked really hard in the backyard, too. Oh well. Best laid plans...
Let me know in the comments if you are doing a Menu Monday!!

Party Party Party!

2010-08-15T20:21:00.001-05:00

We had Margaret Anne's second birthday party yesterday. It was a blast! We had planned for it to be outside, but I guess Margaret Anne wanted a tropical storm for her birthday because it POURED down rain all morning. SO the party was inside. I had NO idea we could fit all of those people into our house, but it ended up being a great party. It was a little chaotic... but I think Margaret Anne had so much fun!

Pictures of our fancy elmo decor ;-)

Making a wish!

Margaret Anne is a lucky little girl. She got so many wonderful gifts. She was excited about EVERYTHING! She has no idea how lucky she is to have so many nice things.

Aunt Lulu loves Aerosmith, so MA got an Aerosmith tee.

She has so much family that loves her! Even though we missed those that weren't able to make the trip, we had lots of fun with the family that we were blessed to see, and we are very thankful to have so many people that love Margaret Anne.

Uncle Jordan

Mimi

Her sweet cousins Bentley and Carter

Margaret Anne and Mommy

Margaret Anne and Daddy

Margaret Anne and Nonna

Grampy! Margaret Anne had SO much fun with Grampy while he stayed with us this weekend. He taught her some crazy fun tricks!

She also had lots of friends come celebrate!

Thomas N. got a little crazy and got in the refrigerator (the kitchen was MA's birthday present from Mommy and Daddy).

Lots of playing happened in MA's room since all of the outside fun was rained out. They didn't seem to mind at all!

Margaret Anne and Reece

Bentley and MA having tea. Obviously we are still loving our tea set and our table and chairs from Nonna and Grampa!

Charlie Hill seemed a little concerned about something... :-) He is SO cute!

Thanks again to everyone who was able to help us celebrate! It was a lot of work, but it was so worth it to see her having so much fun. We love you all!

To My Big Girl

2010-08-14T00:01:00.001-05:00

Margaret Anne,

Today you are two years old. I cannot believe it has been 2 years since you came into our world. You are definitely not a baby any more. You are developing such a wonderful personality and showing us how independent you can be. You melt my heart every day. I can't believe how much you've changed!

August 14, 2008

Your one year picture

Two years old!

Right now you are amazing me with your ability to learn and put together words! When I picked you up from daycare on Thursday, you ran up to me and said "MOMMY, I POO POO!" And you sure had! Whew! I think potty training will be in your near future. You say things like "Sorry, Daddy" if you think you've done something to be sorry for. When I walked down the stairs the other morning, ready for my first day with students, you said "Purdy Mommy!" You just always know how to be SO sweet! You make me laugh in the car, because you always want to hear music, and you always want to dance! If we are listening to the radio and the song ends, another one better come on quickly or Mommy has to turn on the iPod, because you won't stop saying "Mommy? Dance! Pease!" These days you are digging some Michael Jackson.

You are completely obsessed with your tea set right now and we are having tea and coffee and cake (Thank you Fran, Phillip, and Lucy!) all of the time. You love to have tea with me, but especially with Daddy. I think Daddy likes to have tea with you too.

You love to see your friends. When we are on our way to daycare, you call out Granvon's name and all of your daycare friends' names, too. When we pull up to see Charlie or Thomas, you always call out their names and get so excited!

Your words are getting so much clearer. You say "Granvon" instead of "Ga-ga" and "Elmo" instead of "Belbo," and I can't decide if that makes me happy or sad. I'm glad you can speak clearly but sad that you are losing your babyness.

Margaret Anne, you have such a sweet heart. You are a beautiful little girl, inside and out. You show us every day how your love is unconditional and unlimited. I see so much of God's grace in you. When I do something I shouldn't, you forgive me and understand without question. So does our Lord, and I know He has placed you in our lives for many reasons, and showing me His love for me and you is just one of those reasons. I have a much better understanding of His love for us, his children, because my love for you grows exponentially each day. I am so grateful for you, my precious daughter. Daddy and I love you so much.

Happy Birthday!

Love,

Mommy

Lately

2010-08-02T20:40:00.000-05:00

Hays had a birthday.

I made him a cake, like I always do :)

Margaret Anne was interested in blowing out the candles... kind of.

Kind of blurry, but neat.

He's lucky he still has a year left in his twenties!

We went to a party for our good friend, Steve, who is getting married.

It was fun to see old friends and get out of the house. Thank you Nonna for keeping Margaret Anne!

This is what Daisy looked like when we got home...

MA gave Daisy her "stickers of approval." Poor Daisy! Anyone who has ever met Daisy should be very impressed that she lets Margaret Anne this close to her!

Now my summer vacation is over. I started a workshop today that will last until school officially starts back. I am so thankful that I had such a blessed summer, and I am optimistic about this school year!

"Bubba" on TV

2010-07-30T07:18:00.002-05:00

Hey Everyone! If you live in Dothan or the surrounding area, this Men's Health Fair may be of some interest to you. My brother is a urologist in Dothan and he explained all about it yesterday on "Live at Lunch." Click HERE to watch. Margaret Anne watched it and kept saying "Bubba! Hey Bubba"! Because she calls Alan "Bubba." That was my nickname for him when I was little because I couldn't say "brother."

To Hays, on your birthday.

2010-07-27T09:13:00.002-05:00

There’s more here than what we're seeing

A divine conspiracy

That you, an angel lovely

Could somehow fall for me

You’ll always be love’s great martyr

Ill be the flattered fool

and I need you

God gave me you for the ups and downs

God gave me you for the days of doubt

There are no words here left to say, it’s true

God gave me you

On my own I’m only

Half of what I could be

I can’t do without you

We are stitched together

And what love has tethered

I pray we never undo

God gave me you.

I love this song by Dave Barnes. And of course, every time I hear it, I think of Hays. I cannot imagine being blessed with a more wonderful man. He is an incredible husband and father. I can't think of many people who deserve to have an incredible birthday as much as he does. His sacrifices are many, and often his rewards are few. He is 29 today, and I would really love it if you would all comment to him and tell him Happy Birthday!

Beach, Part 1

2010-07-20T07:40:00.000-05:00

We had a GREAT time at the beach last week and we got to see all kinds of family! It was very relaxing and all of us can't wait to go back! Another post with more pics will come soon!

Excited about going to the beach!

Getting used to the sand

Loving it!

Watching Real Housewives of New Jersey. Hays said "why do y'all look so mad?" Well, because that episode was intense! But then we took another one.

We also attempted a photo session one morning on the beach, but Margaret Anne wasn't really into it. Here are some of the best shots.

Then she had a minor meltdown, so we put her in her bathing suit and let her play. She was much happier!

More pics to come. Stay tuned...

We're still here

2010-07-07T14:17:00.000-05:00

Just still enjoying our summer! Here's what we have been up to lately.

Dinner with very good, very old friends

Beth, Stephanie, Me, Amanda

We took a trip to Dothan, which included a visit with Grammy and Grampy. Grampy always finds funny toys for Margaret Anne, and she loves them!

Deer Antlers, anyone? They can go on our heads, be used as drumsticks, and even the dogs can chew on them!

Grammy made some fantastic pesto and sent us some REALLY GOOD 4th of July cookies. She and Grampy also gave MA a bubble machine and let her turn it on in the house (it was raining outside)!! Which we soon found out can make the floor very slippery...

So Margaret Anne enjoyed it outside the next day.

We went to the Wiregrass Commons Mall and rode the carousel. MA wanted Uncle "Bubba" to ride with her.

She LOVES him!

We also woke up very early with interesting hair.

She is Jersey-licious!

And we spent a whole afternoon in and around the pool.

We celebrated the 4th of July...

Got ready for the fireworks with glowies (which later broke open, got in MA's eye and started a meltdown of mommy and child but it ended quickly)

And waited some more in my new tailgate chair. She is going to be a champ at tailgating!

She loved the fireworks and it certainly has been busy! But we have been so blessed to have time with family and friends this summer.

Now its my birthday week! What?? I don't get a whole week? I think I do. I am going to be 31, after all. Onto girls' nights, a concert, and a vacay. Doesn't get any better ;-)

Pray for Thomas

2010-06-23T20:06:00.000-05:00

Hey everyone! I want to ask all of you to pray for Thomas Hill, my good friends Jamie and Trey's little boy. He has been in the NICU since he was born and has had 2 surgeries since Friday. Hopefully Jamie and Trey will get to take him home soon so that he can hang out with his big bro Charlie! Please visit his site and sign his guestbook and pray for their sweet family.

Here is Margaret Anne with Charlie, Thomas's big bro. And he is going to be a great brother, too!

Don't worry guys, as you can see she was covering her mouth. Her daddy's teaching her early how to watch out for those boys. ;)

Please send lots of love to Thomas and the Hill family!

Important things.

2010-06-22T10:23:00.000-05:00

I'm sorry it has been so long since I've posted. Our family has really been enjoying the incredible blessing of my summer off. I haven't had a summer where I wasn't working or going to school (or both) since I was fifteen years old!
You would think that I would blog more with all of this time, but we have had so many important things going on, and I realized that blogging isn't one of my priorities. And it shouldn't be. However, I will still be posting, after all, I did start this blog as kind of a journal for myself.
I will leave you with some pics of our lives lately.

Warning: Unoriginal Blog Material (Hijacked Blog Post)

2010-05-28T08:54:00.003-05:00

I read this on one of our linked blogs and thought it was a fantastic explanation of where the lines get muddled in The Gospel vs. Religion. I found myself falling on both sides, some much more than others. Just thought I'd share as this was very though-provoking for me

Cougarettes Home Routine

2010-05-21T19:22:00.001-05:00

This is my 2010-2011 Cougarette Dance Team. We had our dress rehearsal last night and they did fantastic! I am so excited to take them to camp in a few weeks. They are one of the best parts of my job. They have worked so hard to get this routine together, and it is a difficult one!
Great job girls!

Grampy

2010-05-16T18:33:00.003-05:00

It is very sad for me to say that Hays's grandfather, "Grampy," passed away last Tuesday. We were blessed to be able to travel down to south Florida to celebrate his life. I am very sad to say that I was never able to meet him. He was a wonderful man with a lot of talents, and he helped raise a great family. He loved Grammy so much and called her his "Sweetie." Even through the circumstances were heartbreaking, Hays was able to see family that he hadn't seen in a long time, and I was able to see people I had either never met or also hadn't seen in a while. Most importantly, Margaret Anne was able to spend time with family and I think she had a blast. She loved meeting Grammy, and it was so special to me to be able to finally meet her and see her spend time with Margaret Anne. I know that Margaret Anne loves her. All of Hays's family were so wonderful and they will all be in my prayers. Here are some pics.

"Great" Grammy and Margaret Anne

FOUR Generations of Latimers. How special!

This is Margaret Anne and cousin Alicia playing with the infamous "green orange" that Margaret Anne and her Grampy (Hays's dad is going to be Grampy to MA which I think is sweet) found outside. Obviously not quite ripe, but MA thought it was a great toy, and it was really funny how she said "AAH!" every time she rolled it.
This is Margaret Anne and cousin Allison dancing. It was SO precious how she just warmed up to her girl cousins. First cousins once removed, ladies! Margaret Anne even got her great Grammy dancing!

So much...

2010-05-10T06:03:00.001-05:00

It seems like we have had so much going on lately.Things just feel so heavy. And very busy. I haven't been much in the mood for blogging. Hopefully after school gets out I can be a much better blogger and get more updates out.
I have a few prayer requests:
- Hays's paternal grandad has pancreatic cancer and has not been doing well, and has hospice care in his home. Please pray for peace for him and his family.
- Sandi is about to start a new treatment regimen, so please be praying for major improvements for her.
- Jamie and Trey's little boy, Thomas, has been moved to Children's. They are making progress in finding out what may be causing his feeding and breathing problems, so that is a praise! Please pray that there will be a great solution to his problems and that Jamie and Trey will be able to take him home soon. Also pray for peace for them and rest so that they can continue to take care of Charlie too!
- I have several friends that have gone through miscarriages and fertility issues so please keep them in your prayers as well. You can specifically read my friend Rachel's inspirational story, on her blog. She is such an inspiration to me for so many reasons. Please pray for her and for all of my friends that have been going through these extremely tough situations.

Thanks you guys. I will try harder to be a better blogger :)

Spring has sprung!

2010-05-03T18:00:00.000-05:00

And that means that it is time for our annual yard sale! We had our yard sale on Saturday in Trussville, and it was a great time, as always! I think I look forward to the yard sale for several reasons: a) we make a little money, b) we get rid of a lot of stuff every year and don't keep cluttering up our house, and c) really good friends and great socializing time! I don't know how I didn't remember my camera this year, but you will recall that we did get some pics last year. This year did not disappoint. After the big sale, we went over to our friends Kimberly and Brett's house for fellowship with our awesome T-vegas friends. We always have SO much fun with them! Margaret Anne really enjoyed all of the baby fun too. Kimberly and Brett have Reece, and she and MA used to be in daycare together. I hope we get to hang out with all of our T-town friends lots this summer! Here are some pics from the cookout, where I DID remember my camera.

Reece and MA cooking. It was very serious.

Grilling. That grill was SO cute!

Music session with Kimberly. The kids LOVED this! Can you tell Kimberly teaches elementary school? :) And I love the look on Thomas's face!

Mommy, this house is so fun!

Thanks for having us Brett and Kimberly! We can't wait to see everyone again!

Prayers Please

2010-04-27T05:59:00.000-05:00

Hello Everyone. I just wanted to ask you all for prayers for my friends Jamie and Trey and their newborn son Thomas. Thomas was born last Monday, April 19th, and after a few minutes he was having trouble breathing. He was admitted into the NICU and right now he is still there. The doctors can't seem to find anything specifically wrong with him, but he isn't eating very well (he now has an NG feeding tube) and still needs oxygen every once in a while. He is precious and I know that Jamie and Trey would give anything to be able to bring him home soon and have him be healthy so that he can begin playing with his big brother Charlie! I know he has been receiving a lot of prayers over the last week and they are working because he is slowly improving, but he just needs to improve a lot more so that he can be closer to coming home. Thanks!

And always, please be praying for Sandi.

"But let all those rejoice who put their trust in You; Let them ever shout for joy, because You defend them; Let those also who love Your name Be joyful in You. For You, O LORD, will bless the righteous; With favor You will surround him as with a shield." Psalm 5:11-12

"Behold, I will bring it health and healing; I will heal them and reveal to them the abundance of peace and truth." Jeremiah 33:6

Backyard Fun!

2010-04-25T19:19:00.001-05:00

Today was beautiful, and I wanted to spend as little time as possible indoors. I decided to take MA in the backyard with me to "help" plant some squash while Meredith had some down time, and it turned into the whole family hanging out and having fun! It helps that the backyard is actually close to functional after a few good hours of manual labor. Here are some pictures from today...

Really happy about saying cheese!

Not happy about something...

Mommy got me some golf clubs! I'm a natural!

Is he wearing proper golf attire?

Let me show you how it's done, Daddy!

Full swing with the putter?!

Which one should I use next?

Humans are so easily entertained...

Not quite Augusta National, but we love it!

**This posted under Meredith, but this was by Hays!!**

love is in the air

2010-04-17T08:58:00.000-05:00

Last weekend we were in Mobile for the wedding of Corrie (one of my very best friends) and Benjamin. We had a blast, the weather was beautiful, and Corrie and Benjamin planned such a classy, beautiful, FUN wedding! It was SO fun, that Corrie's family had to keep kicking out wedding crashers. And no, I am not joking.

Bridesmaids at the bridesmaids luncheon

Jennifer at the rehearsal. The priest wanted to make sure that we bowed our heads to the Lord, so he did it for us...

Natalie stretched out her shoes before the wedding.

While Loren and I watched and waited...

I think the pictures are going to be beautiful. It was such a gorgeous day!

After the pictures, we relaxed outside.

Then we came in and toasted the beautiful bride and groom (and don't worry everyone, the two pregnant ones are not drinking champagne, just posing with the glasses!)

Corrie was SUCH a beautiful bride!

And they make such a gorgeous couple.

Happily Ever After!

Photos courtesy of Natalie and Sam. Thanks guys!

Gorgeous Vintage Jewelry

2010-04-14T15:30:00.001-05:00

My good friend Jamie has recently started selling vintage jewelry at Henhouse Antiques. In Jamie's own words:
"As most of you may already know, I started a vintage jewelry business this past year. You can buy the jewelry at Henhouse Antiques in English Village in Birmingham or you can contact me by email for prices, shipping, etc. I buy all of the jewelry in England at various antique markets and fairs. I try to get as much information as possible on each piece. Just let me know if you have any questions about any of the pieces pictured or if you are looking for something in particular. "

You can contact Jamie at jamiecrimhill (at) gmail (dot) com. I have seen many of these pieces in person and they are absolutely gorgeous!

I mean, who wouldn't want something like this vintage crystal necklace?

or this?

This brooch would be so gorgeous on a wedding dress!

And I love these peridot and silver earrings (they are Margaret Anne's birthstone)

And I love these amethyst and seed pearl earrings (I have a thing for purple)!

I think these flower earrings are so cute!

And I would just take my pick of any of these!!

Please email me or Jamie if you would like more information on any of her vintage jewelry. She has many, many pieces that came in her last shipment and I know they won't be there for long!

Blessed

2010-04-05T20:43:00.001-05:00

We are so blessed this Easter season! We are so blessed that Christ died. And we are so blessed that He is Risen! We are so blessed because of the family that we were able to see, and the ones that we weren't able to see this Easter. Thank you Lord, for all of your blessings!

A few pics from this Easter...

This is Margaret Anne's Easter basket, before she tore into it! The Easter Bunny MAY have brought some Cadbury cream eggs for the adults :) She is OBSESSED with Elmo and Big Bird, and she didn't have a Big Bird, so Easter Bunny brought her one.

It took her a little while to wake up and get excited about her treats!

The Latimer Family, all dressed up for church! We had a great Easter service.

MA with gorgeous Aunt (and godmother) Sandi

Me, Sandi, MA

Grandpa, Margaret Anne, and Nonna

Sandi and Alan

It was kind of hard to get Margaret Anne to stop running around long enough to smile for the camera, but I thought she was so pretty in her Easter dress!

Please ignore the little red spot on her face. All girls have our little blemishes sometimes :)

Always on the move!

Happy Easter!

Coming Soon...

2010-04-05T06:37:00.001-05:00

Will be pictures from this Easter! We had a fantastic weekend and I can't wait to share it with everyone!

Absence...

2010-03-29T05:44:00.000-05:00

Makes the heart grow fonder??? I hope so! Sorry my posts have been so few and far between. I feel like I cannot catch up with life here lately!
Last week passed by like a whirlwind and I am ready to stay home for a little while! I went to the lake with some girls on Saturday and spent the night, we called it a "mom support group" meeting. We had fun, but I missed Hays and Margaret Anne.
Speaking of MA, she decided Saturday and Sunday that she didn't want to nap. Saturday she wouldn't nap at all, and Sunday she fussed for 45 minutes before finally sleeping for about 45 minutes. Has anyone else experienced this? Maybe it was because she was out of her usual routine. Who knows. I am anxious to see if she naps well today at daycare.
We are getting excited about Easter and I hope MA gets excited about the Easter bunny coming to see her! I think he is going to bring her some good stuff ;) It is my prayer, however, that when MA gets a little older that she will love her Father and appreciate the real reason that we celebrate during this Easter season.
I hope you guys have a great day. Happy Monday!

A Zoo of a Weekend!

2010-03-21T18:58:00.000-05:00

We have had a very busy, but very good weekend! Yesterday we went to the zoo with Hays' cousin Bre and her kids, Carter and Bentley, and his cousin Chad's wife Ginger and her kids, Camden and Emerson. We had a blast! Margaret Anne was really good about staying in her stroller, too. It was SO crowded and I didn't want her to fall or anything crazy. I did take her out to see some of the animals that she couldn't see while sitting down, and she seemed to like it! Here are some pics from the day.

"Just making sure you are back there, Mommy!"

Bentley, Carter, and Camden

Waiting for the ride to start, obviously not a great picture! You can see sweet Emerson though!

Before the train ride

I was really excited to see what Margaret Anne would think about the train ride. You can see for yourselves!

At first she was really excited, obviously! Then she got used to the fact that we were moving and actually seemed interested in the animals that I pointed out. It was so fun watching her.

Today we have had a pretty lazy but nice Sunday. We didn't make it to church this morning, we were all just dragging. But we slowly got productive and made a grocery run. Also, MA got a little surprise this afternoon! Our wonderful neighbors Jason and Leigh brought her a new Elmo! She is OBSESSED with Elmo.

She really likes him! He blows kisses and calls her his sweetheart. BTW, this is our casual Sunday "about to get a bath" look.

After her bath, she modeled both of her Elmos for you guys.

Happy Sunday!

BP OH-'10

2010-03-17T10:25:00.000-05:00

As promised, here are some pictures and a brief review of our cruise!

We boarded the Carnival Sensation in Cape Canaveral, Fl on Thursday morning. That process went very well. From the parking attendant to our room steward, to our waiters, we experienced the BEST service. Everyone that worked there was SO nice. Also, I could not believe how CLEAN everything was! And the food was really good, much better than I thought it would be. Our room was even larger than expected. Corrie, Missy and Natalie's room had the most people in it though and was really small and WAY down the hall from us. It had no window and was very tomb-like.

We had a blast the first day, but a few of us started to feel really sick because the weather was bad and the ship was pretty rocky. But that did NOT stop us from getting our picture made at one of the many extremely cheesy photography stations. Can you tell that the photographer kept telling us to look "sexy?" We had a very hard time controlling our laughter.

The next day we went to Nassau, shopped, and went to the beach. It was really fun! Here are Corrie and I before we left for our little excursion.

And then Natalie and I on the beach. The weather was beautiful and warm, but don't let that blue water fool you. It was SO COLD!

We went out again in Nassau that night so that we could fully embarass Corrie and do a little dancin.' No pics of that yet, but hopefully soon!

And then finally our last day on the ship was a day at sea. We laid out and relaxed on the boat. Then we had dinner and went all over the ship that night. We met some pretty funny characters along the way, too.

This guy was on his bachelor party.

We took another group picture (ourselves), but some of us were missing. One was sick and one was having great luck in the casino!

Kelly thought the dangly lights looked like the tree of souls.

We had such a good time and I wish I got to hang out with these girls much more often. We will need many more excuses to vacation together after everyone gets married!

Still here

2010-03-16T18:31:00.000-05:00

And recovering from my 4 day whirlwind awesome cruise to the Bahamas! We definitely know how to do a bachelorette party right. It was very fun, very NOT relaxing, so I am spending my time loving on Margaret Anne and resting when I can. Margaret Anne decided to spike a 103.3 temp the night I returned, so we had to go to the Dr yesterday (he said she had a "fever virus") and of course she hasn't had any more fever since yesterday morning. I really missed her and have been loving on her (and Hays) nonstop. Pictures to come SOON!

Typical Day in the Life of a Working Mama

2010-03-05T05:30:00.000-06:00

Over at Kelly's Korner she is hosting a "show us your life" on what your typical day is like. I like this one, because my days are SO predictable and so NOT predictable!
Here goes:
5:20am - My alarm goes off. I hit snooze at least twice.
5:40am- Shower, get out, get dressed
6:05am- When I get out of the shower I can hear Margaret Anne babbling in the background. After I get dressed, I make her milk and snuggle a little while and she drinks her milk.
6:15am - Daddy gets up, comes in, gets MA dressed and brushes her teeth while I fix my hair and put on my makeup. They go downstairs to watch Blue's Clues and Hays usually starts my car and makes me a coffee. He is AWESOME!
6:40am - Leave for work and Granvon's house. MA usually watches Praise Baby on the way there.
7:10am - Arrive at Granvon's, kiss my baby bye bye. She loves Granvon and is never upset about this :)
7:15am - Arrive at school, get my things ready for the day.
7:45am- Bell rings, I am bombarded by students. Every day is very much alike and very different at the same time. There is NO WAY to predict what will happen in a typical day at CCHS!
3:00pm - Final bell rings and I wrap things up in my classroom and attempt to clean my desk off a little.
3:30pm - Arrive at Granvon's. MA is usually happy to see me!
4:15pm - Arrive home. Mama/daughter play time! Sometimes I get dinner going during this time, too.
5:30pm - Dinner time for Margaret Anne. Daddy usually gets home while she eats dinner. Then he gets her bath ready. Bath time is Daddy's fun time with MA. During her bath I either a)sit and relax or b) get ready for Pure Barre.
6:00pm - MA loves to watch Dora, then Diego Mama and Daddy play with her during this time, too (unless I am at PB)
7:00pm - Bedtime. This has become so fun lately because Margaret Anne loves to cuddle before bedtime, when she didn't used to like to snuggle at all.
After bedtime, Hays and I are usually starving and we eat if we didn't get to while Margaret Anne was eating. Then we settle in for our fave TV shows, which means I usually end up falling asleep on the couch at about 8:30.

This is my most typical day. Today, for example, is not typical and I will be going to judge a dance tryout right after school, so Hays will be picking MA up from daycare, and hopefully I will be home before she goes to bed. During tryouts, there were several nights that I didn't even get to lay eyes on her after school and that was pretty sad. I will tell you though, I feel like I really appreciate the time that I am able to spend with her! Summers and breaks are much appreciated and enjoyed!

Stats...

2010-03-04T17:20:00.001-06:00

Margaret Anne had her 18 month check up yesterday, and the doctor said she looked great! Here are her stats:
97th Percentile for height (WOW!)
25th Percentile for weight (Dr. says this is great because she is staying right on her same growth curve)
90th Percentile for head circumference (what a noggin!)

She did really well and only cried for a second when she got her shot. I hate that part. But the good news is that she doesn't have to go back until she is two. Can you believe that she will be TWO this year? That is crazy! Where did my little newborn go??

And some more stats, this time, a few of my own. I decided to weigh today (I always use the Wii fit to weigh because I feel like it is pretty accurate). I haven't weighed since before Christmas (which, lets be honest, is never a good time to weigh for anyone after all of the Thanksgiving-Christmastime eating that occurs) and I just wanted to see what my progress has been. To be honest, I was scared to weigh because I know that I have lost inches but gained muscle, and I was afraid that only a slight drop in the numbers would discourage me from continuing. I was going to HAVE to weigh at my annual doctor's appointment, but I had to reschedule that for after my cruise and if I don't gain at least a pound or two on vacation then I must not be vacationing correctly ;)
SO I did it first thing this morning. Drumroll please....
I am down 15lbs from November. FIFTEEN POUNDS!!! I started my diet in January so I feel like that is really good progress, since like I said I know I have gained some muscle. I am currently 3 lbs away from my prepregnancy weight. I can't believe it. I have 2 more pairs of jeans that I have yet to fit into (but more importantly are the 4 pair of jeans and the NUMEROUS pairs of work pants that I now CAN get into). I am just so excited. Now that it is T minus one week until we girls' trip it to the Bahamas, I am going to go hard core for a week to see how much closer I can get to my goal before then. I will keep you posted!
Pure Barre is going to be so sick of seeing my face...

Busy Busy (the one with all the pictures)!

2010-03-02T16:29:00.001-06:00

That is the ONLY way that I know how to describe the last 2 weeks! A week of tryouts (I love my dance team but I HATE tryouts) and then many showers and parties! It has been a BLAST. But I am ready for some REST. Oh, who am I kidding? I don't do good with rest.

First, we had a baby shower for my very good, very old friend Stephanie. It is so nice to be around my old girlfriends! It's always like no time has passed between us. There were some we missed though. And Stephanie has some very sweet friends of her own, too!

Gorgeous decor by Rachel, of course!

Hostesses and Steph (minus a few that couldn't make it, we missed y'all!)

Then, it was straight to the lake for a girls' dinner and lingerie shower for Corrie!

For some reason, Corrie brought Benjamin. FLAT Benjamin.

But he didn't make it to dinner.

Man, I love these girls! At the restaurant the SpringHouse (fabulous new restaurant at Lake Martin), there was a man celebrating his 72nd Birthday! He and Corrie had something in common. Can anyone see what it is??

If you guessed fabulous head wear, you were right!

Then it was time for Corrie to open her lingerie. Here you see Flat Benjamin modeling some of her more, ahem, TASTEFUL gifts.

Here is a close up of Flat Benj so you guys can see just how handsome he is :)

BTW, Flat Benjamin courtesy of Natalie.

The next morning, I got to sleep til 8:00! That is late for me, so Jennifer snapped a GREAT pic.

After I got home on Sunday, it was gorgeous outside, so Hays and I took Margaret Anne to the park. I think she liked the swings.

And she loved the slide. Daddy helped!

And I think she liked just being able to run around. She would YELL AND YELL at the kids that ran past her!

Mom, what's with all the pictures???

Well, internets. As you can see, its been a busy but fun-filled time. Hopefully I won't have to let so much time pass between posts.

Now, time to change a toddler's stinky diaper. Oh, the glamorous life.

Please Excuse Me

2010-03-01T06:01:00.000-06:00

So sorry internets. I know I have been absent from blog world lately. We have been awfully (well, actually, wonderfully) busy around these parts lately and I have not had it in me to sit down and blog. But that will change tonight. I have lots to post and lots of pictures, so prepare yourselves for some ultimate posting from me later. I hope that it makes up for my absence!

A little more...

2010-02-16T19:36:00.002-06:00

I wanted to tell everyone a little bit about my grandmother. My brother and cousin Mary Margaret spoke about her at the funeral. I am not quite as good with words as they are, but the things they said brought back a flood of memories.
Those of you who were lucky enough to meet MeeMaw know how spunky she could be! She always had an opinion about everything and if you wanted to know what she thought, all you had to do was ask her. But if you didn't really want an honest opinion, better not ask her! More recently you didn't have to ask her, she just told you!
I never realized growing up how very lucky I was to have my MeeMaw. I don't remember any event, no matter how unimportant it seemed, that she was not there for. Every holiday, every birthday, every dance recital, every graduation, every violin concert, band concert or competition, you name it, she was there. AND she had to travel from Birmingham to Gadsden for everything! I think she made each one of us feel like we were her favorite grandchild.
I always loved going to stay at her house. She would always make our favorite foods. She made pickles... they were so good but they made your breath smell for weeks! She and I would go up to Vulcan Park because I loved "the man with the popsicle" that would either be red or green. FYI- no popsicle any more, now he has a spear. Before we went, we would go by and get a Subway sandwich, then go eat at a picnic table at the park. Then she would take me around to look through all of the viewfinders and see Vulcan.
She would pay me $5 for every pound I would gain (she thought I was too skinny). She made stuffed artichokes, fried zucchini and cauliflower, and of course, the best spaghetti and meatballs! She used to make "bugs on a log" for me when I was little, have any of you ever had that? I will make it for Margaret Anne when she is older. I want so badly to be able to pass on the traditions that she started and kept going for so long. I remember her and my mom sitting at the kitchen table, talking about all of the people in the family and what they were up to. I would always get all of the Italian last names mixed up , but I loved listening to them talk. They could drink coffee and talk for what seemed like hours.
MeeMaw worked so hard all of her life. I don't ever remember a time, up until she was almost 92, that she didn't have at least one job. She is such an inspirational person. She never seemed to tire. She never made excuses. If something had to be done, she did it. When someone in her family was sick or hurting, she was by their side. Because to MeeMaw, that is just what family did.
MeeMaw has always been there to take care of all of us. She loved it. And, like my brother put it so beautifully in his speech, I think she will always be taking care of us.
I will miss you MeeMaw. Love you.

To My Little Valentine

2010-02-14T08:02:00.000-06:00

To my little Valentine,

Today you are 18 months old. 18 MONTHS! The other night daddy and I were talking about how we can’t believe that six months have passed since your first birthday party. We just can’t believe how fast the time is flying by. Just a few mornings ago I was holding you, during that perfect sweet special time of the day, when you first get up and are so eager to be loved on and held. We sat together in the rocking chair, and although I was holding you like a little baby you are SO not a little baby any more. You are a gorgeous, precious little girl. I found myself longing for my little baby again, and then I realized how blessed I am to have you, my angel, in my arms, exactly as you are.

These days you are so much fun. You are walking and running everywhere. Your favorite TV shows are Dora, Diego, Yo Gabba Gabba (eek!), Blue’s Clues and Backyardigans. You love to giggle and dance when you see them coming on and you hear the fun music that goes with them. I think you may be a performer, because you are already inventing some of your own dance moves, and you can turn and jump, and you always take a bow and clap for yourself when you are through.

You say LOTS of words. Mama, Dada, Car, Ball, Bye-bye, No, Keys, Shoes, Light, Hi, Uh-Oh, Nonna, Daisy (more like Dais-, but we are working on it!), Cup, Milk, and you are really good at repeating or trying to repeat words when we ask you to. You are a good eater… sometimes! You have 11 teeth and I think you are working on the 12th one.

There are a few things that you don’t like. You DO NOT like having your teeth brushed. No sir. That is a battle we fight twice a day, and although you hate it, you still lay there and let us do it. You do not like having your beautiful curly hair tamed in the morning time. But let me tell you, it is wrecked when you wake up in the morning, and it makes for absolutely hilarious moments. I never know what I am going to find when I walk in your room in the morning!

There are so many things that I love about you. You are so very, very sweet. You share your toys with anyone that may want to play with them. If one of your friends comes over, you make sure that you give them toys to play with before you get any for yourself. You give such sweet, sweet wonderful kisses and hugs. You have the best little temperament and disposition. I like to think that your personality has something to do with the type of parents that Daddy and I have been so far, but I know that is completely silly and it doesn’t have anything to do with us. You are perfectly YOU, the way our Father made you, and it has nothing to do with Daddy or me.

Oh, my little love. My cup runneth over. Thank you for being the most perfect Valentine.

Love,

Mama

P.S. You didn’t exactly LOVE the snow.

Arrangements for MeeMaw

2010-02-12T18:42:00.000-06:00

Visitation for Constance Lorino will be held Sunday, February 14, 2010 from 5:00-7:00 pm with a Rosary Service at 7:00 pm at Ridout's Elmwood Chapel. A funeral Mass will be held at 10:00 am Monday, February 15, 2010 at St. Peter the Apostle Catholic Church in Hoover with burial to follow in Elmwood Cemetery. In addition to flowers, the family requests that donations be made to Champions of Hope, SAMC Foundation, P.O. Box 6987 Dothan, AL 36302 or SAMCfoundation.org.

Thank you again for all of your prayers.

August 31, 1916 -February 11, 2010

2010-02-12T13:25:00.001-06:00

My sweet grandmother, MeeMaw, passed away yesterday. Thank you for all of your prayers for our family as we will miss her so much. She is dancing with Jesus now, and her brothers and sisters in heaven. Love you MeeMaw.

With a Lump in my throat

2010-02-07T14:35:00.000-06:00

I just watched this for the first time. I am sitting here with a lump in my throat. This reminds me that we are ALL broken, but God's unconditional love and grace can make us whole in His eyes.
I hope that if you read this blog, and you are a broken individual like we all are, and you are holding onto something, anything, that is interfering with your relationship with the Lord, that you just pray and give it all to Him. You will be forever changed.

Wow.

Please pray for my Grandmother (MeeMaw). She had to have surgery on Friday for a bowel obstruction and she has not yet awoken and is in ICU. Please pray for comfort for her, my mom, and my aunt, as they have much work ahead of them and many decisions to make.
And, as always, please pray for my sweet Sister-in -law, Sandi.

Giveaway!

2010-02-03T16:08:00.001-06:00

My IRL friend Laura at iGriza is having a "VALENTIMES" (her word for Valentine's which I love and have stolen) giveaway! Go over there and check it out. But I secretly hope I win it and not you. Just Kidding! Or am I....?

Pure Barre. UPDATE - Almost 3 weeks later, and 13 classes in...

2010-02-02T18:00:00.001-06:00

Ok, I need a professional counselor, because I am addicted. Completely addicted. And I think there are worse things in the world to be addicted to.

The great thing about Pure Barre is that the more you do it, the harder it gets. Because you can make it through most of the warm up. You learn how to do the exercises and doing them correctly means that they hurt more!

My body feels totally different. I haven't weighed myself, but I am sitting here writing this post in a pair of jeans that is 2 sizes smaller than the jeans I was wearing 3 weeks ago. I can get into SEVERAL pairs of pants that I couldn't wear. I had to buy new YOGA pants because the ones that I was wearing to class were too saggy baggy and I was afraid someone might bring a "say no to crack" sign. Also, I went to a fantastic Old Navy sale and I was able to buy clothes at least one or two sizes smaller.

I will say that it is not all PB, but a lot of willpower and diet changes. But I know the workout is a LOT of it. And I will keep on keepin' on! I have an appointment on Feb 15th at my Dr's office. I will get weighed then, so that will be my true test. However, I still have over a month left to reach my goal of 10 lbs lost and back into all of my pre-pregnancy jeans!

Menu Monday

2010-02-01T07:01:00.001-06:00

My week last week went pretty well on the Menu Monday front. We ended up with a lot of leftover chili and I went out to eat on Wednesday night, so Thursday night's meal was eliminated. We will be having the chicken and pasta this week instead. We are very busy this week, so we will see how it goes.

Sunday- Dinner at my Aunt and Uncle's house. FANTASTIC homemade spaghetti and meatballs.
Monday - "Yoshida" chicken, pasta
Tuesday - Leftovers from Mon.
Wednesday - Chicken Florentine, corn
Thursday - Leftovers from Wed.
Friday - Hot dogs, baked chips
Saturday - I will be OUT, baby and daddy on their own :)

So far, I feel like this has been working out really well for us in several ways. My diet is still on track, I have still been able to go to Pure Barre (post on my progress coming up soon, but I can go ahead and tell you that it is AMAZING, and I cannot believe the results so far after 12 classes) and I feel like it really saves us time and money because there is none of the "what are we going to eat... let's just pick something up" talk.

DO you do Menu Monday? If you do, or have questions, let me know in the comments section! If you want a recipe, be sure to leave your email address so that I can email it to you. Just put it in the soandso (at) soandso (dot) com format so you don't get a bunch of silly spam.

Have a great Monday everyone!

Menu Monday (on Tuesday, AGAIN!)

2010-01-26T05:15:00.001-06:00

I did pretty well with my menu last week, however we went out on Saturday night (to the Pure Barre Birmingham opening party, congrats!) so I moved the spaghetti to Tuesday. And we didn't do Sunday's chicken and hibatchi rice, so that will be moved to this week. SOOO, the menu is as follows:

Sunday - Whole Wheat Spaghetti with meatballs (homemade meatballs, Ragu sauce doctored a little)
Monday - Leftover Spaghetti :)
Tuesday - Slow cooker Turkey Chili, crackers
Wednesday - Leftover Chili
Thursday - Chicken tenders, pasta, creamed spinach (Green Giant low fat, it is GOOD!)
Friday - Thin crust pizza
Saturday - Hot dogs, baked chips

I would love for you to let me know in my comments if you are going to do Menu Monday!